Déjà vu "The experience of feeling sure that one has witnessed or experienced b4"

Monday, December 5, 2011

Mummy Returns


I am back after a longgggggggggggg break..Yah almost  break of an year my last post was by Jan 10 2011 now itz Dec 05 2011.. In my last post i hinted about one great change which will happen in my life in 2011..Yah that happened.. I am a MOTHER now.. Mother of 4 month old baby n hezz Daksh :)

 A Briefing of 2011..

By End of 2010 ,Dec 8th exactly it was told by my Doctor that I am pregnant..The wonderful news I have ever heard in my lifetime. But things were not that wonderful n fair as i thought of being a pregnant women.
From the initial month itself i started with the regular chore of Morning Sickness..Yuck i hate it :(
I being a food lover started hating food. Non vegetarian food become my enemyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!

From December 8th 2010 Till August 3rd 2011 it a was Long N Hectic journey still i am loving it.

The first question to a married couple after a couple of months is is the any Good News?

I took almost 2 years to give the good news to my loved ones....

All that happened between the three trimesters are flashing through my mind..but still i don't know whether i will be able to express it in the same intensity ,still i will make a try for that.

After 4 weeks of this news, i was asked by the doctor to come for my initial scan...
That was the first time i was seeing my babies heart beat..That's a great feeling..a small heart is beating Dum Dum ...I asked the doctor to show that to my husband too.. He was lil scared to see that..But after that till his birth my husband never came to the Scanning Room :)

Since nobody was around to take care of me or to clear my doubts and agonies during  pregnacy  the first thing i did was registering to Babycenter where i get the weekly updates of my growing baby. Saturday i used to receive the mails or updates from Babycenter. I was seeing my baby growing from the size of a poppy seed till Pumpkin size.40 Weeks of waiting..Babycenter was my stepmother during pregnancy.I totally believed the updates and mails which I got from the site..

From the first trimester till the last trimester the one thing which was accompanying me was Vomiting and Food Aversion :)

Each and everyday became hectic. All morning I had same routines ans same kind of break fast Idly Dosa or Putt(Steam Cake ;) I think my lil one will never like these things because he might be bored because of the  same menu. My colleagues in quotes "Not Ladies"  they used to cook food for me for the lunch with varieties of dishes and make me eat.

Each day some veggie poriyals will be there and they will explain me what that vegetable is gonna supplement to my baby


Carrot : Is good for babies eyes.
Beetroot : Will give color for my baby.
Ladies Finger : Will make my baby good at Mathematics.
Tomatoes : Rich in Calcium.
Dhal: Which will supplement proteins to my baby
Curd Rice: Which will supplement calcium..

Dinner will be cooked by me..But initial and final part will be taken care by my hubby..He will cut vegetables , wash all the plates and cookwares before and after food and  even serve food.The one thing i did was just put these veggies into a pan and add some masalas. If that can be called as cooking ,If yes... Yeah I did cooking :)

Night sleep was always a nightmare for me..Literally sleepless night not only for me for better half too..because i never allowed him to sleep when i was awake..Really thankful to him for all his support during this 10 months.

Even i didn't eat much i gained much..I gained almost 13 kgs during these three trimesters and  was looking horrible during my last trimester.My friends were not able to recognize me...My parents who came for my delivery was shocked me to see

                                                  Pre Delivery               Post Delivery


Now i think every one is convinced Shocked right? hehhehe..

By end of third trimester Swollen Legs and Nose,Big Tummy,Tanned Skin,Hard to Breathe,Food Aversion,Sleepless Nights...

The dates on the calender which was kept on my office table is all stricken. With all these health issues I somehow managed to go to office till 3 days before my delivery...Because office was always a place of peace for me with whole lot of people around.Not simply around they do care for me :)

My lil one was a big time naughty fellow inside the womb ,by the start of the third trimester he from the upside down position he went to the breech position..Doctor waited till August 1st till nothing happened and i was told to go for a C section and it was my decision to take the Date on August 3rd. Because all the special moments inmy life happened on 2nd and 3rd.

 My B'day May 3rd
 My Hubbies October 2nd
 My Wedding Day November 2nd..
 So i decided my lil one should come to this beautiful world either on these two dates.

August 3rd By 2 pm i was admitted at LifeLine Hospital Abudhabi , By 5:30 pm i was taken to the operation theater.There also, i was given choice whether to go for a general anesthesia or a spinal. I selected Spinal because i was told by the doctor u will be awake through out the surgery and u can see and kiss your baby immediate. I was hearing all the conversation between doctors during the surgery..Anxious waiting at last i heard his first cry at 5:48 pm.. Ohhhh My God Tears rolled down my cheeks..Fruit of my 10 months hardship and suffering...My Daksh  - Daksh Means -> Precious Son



         Months passed like seconds now my lil one is 4 months..A small lil Champ..His father call him "Dundoomb" that's how that name sounds spelling may be different ,itz a character's name in some World Classic Movie..seriously i never seen that movie so don't ask which movie :) I call him Daksh'u...

                        NOW HE'Z MY WORLD.MY BUNDLE OF JOY N HAPPINESS    

          

Still more stories to come!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


2011 i am loving you

6 comments:

imanjustephen said...

HMm i wish to be pregnant, hearing ur fruitful 10 month stories. Its true, those 10 months get vanished with a minute wen he is given to ur hands.

Scorpria said...

Awesome :)
straight from the heart post :) nice nice...me loves!!

parvathy praveen said...

hi dear..
nice nice,,,,i like it,,,

Rishith's tiny thoughts said...

i like the comment "Babycenter was my stepmother during pregnancy" ..even for me ..i think for all new momies baby center was really helpful ..

Monica said...

Thank you all for the comments and likings..

lucky said...

kollam da...i relived the moment in my life...

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